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He says he got tested. Is it weird to ask for the results?

Not at all. You deserve an open conversation about sexual health. And sharing results shouldn’t mean handing someone your entire medical record.

Velvet Verify helps you and your partner exchange relevant STI test results privately, with less awkwardness and more clarity.

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Asking isn't the problem. Finding a comfortable way to share can be.

“I got tested recently” is a good start. Wanting to see results is reasonable, too. Both people deserve privacy and clarity.

The question

What were you tested for?

Testing isn't one-size-fits-all. Knowing what and when someone tested can help start a useful conversation.

The tradeoff

Do you really need their entire report?

Medical records can include names, dates of birth, provider details, and more than either person intended to share.

The better way

Share the relevant results.

Velvet Verify offers a mutual, time-limited exchange without sending the original document to a new connection.

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Meet Velvet Verify

However you meet. Wherever you test. Share with confidence.

Velvet Verify isn’t another dating app or lab. It’s a private place to connect and exchange relevant results — whether you met online, in person, or somewhere in between.

Use your usual healthcare provider, or explore convenient at-home testing and lab appointment options through our partners if you need a place to start.

Trust without handing over the whole medical record.

Get tested

Upload results for automatic verification.

Get connected

Privately share results with sexual partners.

Get alerted

Receive anonymous alerts if past sexual partners test positive.

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Simple, from testing to sharing

A clearer conversation in three steps.

  1. Get tested your way.

    Already have recent lab results? You're ready to start. If not, get tested wherever works for you — with your usual provider or an option below.

  2. Add your results.

    Upload your lab report. Velvet Verify extracts relevant information and inspects the document for authenticity markers, consistency, and attribution. You'll review the extracted results before confirming.

  3. Invite, connect and share.

    Invite someone using an in-app connection option such as a QR code. Once you both agree to connect, relevant results can be viewed privately for a 24-hour sharing window — without sending the original lab report.

Optional, if you need it

Need testing? We've got options.

Use any testing provider you prefer. Or, if you’re not sure where to start, explore convenient lab testing and at-home kits through our partners.

These are affiliate links; Velvet Verify may earn a commission if you purchase. You're never required to use a partner.

And beyond sharing: You can also opt in to discreet, anonymous exposure alerts for eligible in-app connections.

Privacy isn't an add-on

Your results are personal. Your original report stays out of the conversation.

Give someone the information relevant to your conversation without automatically handing over the document it came from.

The original document is deleted.

After you’ve reviewed and accepted or declined the extracted results, the uploaded lab document is deleted — or automatically within 24 hours of submission, whichever happens first.

What matters, not everything

Relevant results are presented within Velvet Verify rather than forwarding the whole medical record.

Time-limited by design

Mutual connections use a 24-hour sharing window; reopening access requires agreement.

No false guarantees

A Verified label reflects automated document checks, not a promise that someone is STI-free or cannot transmit infection.

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Just the questions that matter

Before you download, you might be wondering…

Velvet Verify is designed to minimize sensitive data exposure. Your name and contact details aren’t publicly displayed; uploaded lab documents are deleted after you review the extracted results or within 24 hours, whichever is sooner. We don’t sell personal or health information, and documents aren’t used for model training. No system can guarantee absolute security. Read the privacy policy.

Ready when you are

Make the next conversation easier.

Share relevant results privately, on your terms.

Want to think it through first?

Read our guide to talking about STI testing

Get Velvet Verify

Connect confidently. Share securely. Alert anonymously.